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发表于 2009-3-30 16:29
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奋斗看过吧,大多数应该知道这北京姑娘。米莱,绝对真实。至少我认为像她那样为爱痴狂的人是存在的。
但是也只有我们可以理解米莱的行为吧,如果把米莱这样的痴情女子移植到欧洲来,估计就基本上会被认为是异类或脑子有病。
很不幸,这就是残忍的现实,中西方爱情观的巨大差异。小小地调查了一下身边的外国男生,毫无例外地,答案如下:
You cannot force a person to love you.(你不能逼一个人去爱你)
if a guy doesn't like you, there is nothing you can do about it.(如果一个男孩子不喜欢你,没有什么你可以做的)
here is nothing the girl can do to make him like her, either he will like her by getting to know her, or he won't.(这个女孩子什么都做不了,或者这个男孩子慢慢了解她后会喜欢她,或者不会,就两种情况。她无法“使”别人爱她)
the only thing she can do is confuse him if he likes her, and then maybe he pretends to like her but really doesn't(她唯一能做地就是让他自己迷惑,自己都不知道是否喜欢她。可是这样也许他会好像是喜欢她而事实并非如此)
she has to let it happen, or things will get messy.it is possible to for him to grow to like her, but she cannot make him。(她要接受事实,否则事情会越来越糟糕。他有可能会慢慢喜欢上她,但是她不能逼迫他)
这就是国外男生对于像米莱的女孩子的评价。所谓中国男人歌颂的痴情女子。#05# |
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